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Our Mission
To help gamers and nerds find love by connecting them with like-minded singles, with respect and authenticity at the heart of everything we do.
Dating for people who play
Gaming is more than a hobby. It is how many of us connect, unwind, compete and express ourselves. When it comes to dating, that should matter. We built this site to be more than a profile picture marketplace. We built it to be a place where gamers meet people who understand why you stay up for one more match.
PlayStation, PC, Xbox, Switch, mobile or whatever your platform, there are people here who play it. Into MMOs? You will find your fellow tanks and healers. Prefer co-op survival? There are builders who will not let you starve. FPS fans, farming sim fans and turn-based tacticians are all welcome.
Nerds and geeks belong here too. If you love comics, tabletop games, anime or building things, you do not have to explain yourself.
What you will find here
Free to join
Create a free account, build a full profile and browse members at no cost. VIP is an optional upgrade.
Made for gamers
Say what you play, from FPS and MMO RPG to retro, Nintendo, PlayStation and Xbox, so people know where you stand.
Real people
Genuine members only. Free ID verification and profile badges help show who is real and who is active.
Respect first
Clear community rules keep conversations kind, safe and free of harassment.
Community rules
- Adults only. This site is strictly 18 and over.
- Genuine members only. We have protection measures in place so that only real people join, and we do not allow members to market goods or services.
- Be kind. Treat others online the way you want to be treated. If someone is not your type, let them down respectfully.
- Be tolerant. Members come from many backgrounds and experiences. We do not allow racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism or any other discrimination or hate speech.
- Be safe. Keep early conversations on the site, where they can be monitored. Never share your bank details, and never send money or gift cards.
- Be discreet. Not everyone wants to be recognized in the real world. If you meet another member in public, only approach them if they have given you explicit consent.
- Respect boundaries. If someone says no, it is time to move on. Ask for consent before sharing images.
- Follow the law. We do not allow messages or media about illegal activity, including depictions of violence or drugs.
Questions, answered
How much does it cost?
The site is free to join. You can browse profiles, message members and arrange meetups. For unrestricted communication you can become a VIP member, but it is optional.
What does VIP mean?
VIP members support the site and receive extra tools, such as unlimited messaging, priority support and seeing who viewed their profile.
How private is it?
Your personal information is never shown on the site, and you control what you share. We do not share your information with third parties.
Will you spam my inbox?
No. We only notify you about activity on your profile, and you can opt out.
What is on the site?
An active community where you can chat, make friends and find dates. You get to know members through instant messages and comments, and you can read their blogs.
Ready to meet your player two?
Joining Gamer Dating is free. Build a profile, say what you play and send your first message. You can also read about our features or how to meet gamers.
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